Dear Rochelle, 

 

I spoke with the medical intuitive that I've been working
with and she has mentioned this to me: that I've been calling her too much and have invaded her life.Yes..she did help me in so many ways and I thanked her for this so many times. When she said this to me..I just felt so awful. I figured since she
wasa healer..how can she say this and yet..i've been paying her for her
services. Why did she say this? She did hurt my feelings. She infuriated me and I will stop contacting her.Anyways..please let me know what you think.        

                              

Thanks, Sonya

Dear Sonya:  

Your question brings up a very important point.  Not all healers are professional.  Look for a healer that makes it clear he or she is involved in their own psychological processes. That means that he or she gets help from a professional not necessarily to heal any salient psychological issue but to expand their sense of who they are.  Dream analysis, in my opinion, is the best conduit to greater knowledge of the Self.  Let's see what the guides state:  

 

She has not been clear with you about her boundaries.  She has felt 
"invaded" however, she did not state so and did not make it clear when it 
was appropriate for you to connect with her.  These issues are hers 
alone.  What we suggest is to know and understand that your work will 
continue, that these situations of healing do not occur overnight and 
often take time and practice to heal.  We also suggest not to take on 
this energy of "blame" but to know therapists and healers also have 
unaddressed issues. One more thing. We also suggest to let go of any anger you may  hold toward her and understand you feel sadness.  Allow yourself to 
grieve over this loss.

May blessings, Stars

Dear Stars,

 

What could your guides say to me for encouragement....  I know I  
need to make a change in my life and I am willing to do this, however, it seems to
be going slowly, family seems to get in way, looking west...
what do they have to say to me?  Thanks, Brittany

 

Dear Brittany:

Thank you so much for contacting me.  Yes, let's see what they
say.

Brittany, what we suggest is counseling, feels like marital, to know more 
about and understand more about running. (the energy of running).  We 
suggest you are courageous, brave and knowledgeable about your 
being's ability (feels like to stand ground) and to stand tall.  We also 
suggest your being know more about what it is that you want (with 
clarity).  Fulfillment cannot be had externally without knowing first 
what it is internally you would like to have (feels like peace of 
mind) however, peace cannot be had outside of self without it first be 
recognized by the internal Self.  We suggest you focus on your 
strengths, go inside yourself and inquire what it is you feel is truly 
lacking.  Then we suggest to know more about that lack by focusing 
your being's attention on having what it is you believe you lack (feels 
like self worth), because the lack is an illusion.  That is the 
correct way.

Blessings, Stars

 

 

I hope all is well with you. I need some help on something that has been a problem. I'm having a hard time with my children. It's like a power struggle right now. I feel so stressed about this and what makes it worse is that I feel like a misfit parent. Any advice will help tremendously.

Thank you, Barbara

 

 

Children are both are greatest challenge and greatest gift. Remember, they are our teachers. Now for the guides.

We suggest and strongly urge meditation on a daily basis to calm 
(nerves is the energy) and to help you become more aware of your truth 
(emotions).  At times you are not aware of your emotions of irritability and anger nor  why you are feeling them.  We suggest meditation will help you with the "why" and to help  center your emotional state.  We also suggest you may want to consider  parenting classes.  They could help you define rules and boundaries 
for your children. That in itself is very difficult for you at times  
(feeling overwelmed). We also see you beginning your practice within the 
next couple of months (more clients) so you may consider advertising 
(holistic newspaper) your talents and getting started in that arena.  
Remember you are very gifted and talented.  You forget your talents 
and this is not the optimal state for you.  Using your talents is the 
optimal state.  We also suggest speaking directly to your husband 
about helping you more (without blame or anger).  That will help you know 
more about your truth (about what you need for yourself in terms of 
helping with the kids).  That too, will be helpful to you. 

 

Blessings, Stars

 

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