Hi I am 40 yeast old my birthday is 5-9-65 I was born in Middletown Oh in the morning. I have been married for 9 years and our relationship has not always been good. I have three children 8, 6 and a 4 year old also a stepdaughter who is 16. There are times that I just feel like giving up.
Deborah
Dear Deborah;
I think since last July, your may have felt life has taken a turn for the worse but it really hasn’t...it seems it has but what is happening to you is the astrological aspects (Saturn squaring your sun ) in your chart are causing discomfort in many areas of you life you will be moved to change what it is you don’t like. Taurus people don’t like change, even when they need it! They get stuck in ruts for long periods of time, and often for years. I urge you to break this pattern. Come up with a new way of thinking. Don’t allow yourself to be so focused on one and only one option or path. Much of your instability is caused by financial concerns. If you had more money, I doubt you would be putting up with many of the condition that you find yourself in....not for long anyway. Another big aspect you are facing right now is the Uranus opposition which happens to all of around your age and is also known as the mid life crisis. You are feeling choked and trapped and ready to break free from the lifestyle you have set for yourself. With your Saturn square and the Uranus opposition, you are getting hit double-hard with the need to break free. The key here is not to toss the baby out with the bath water but make smaller more steady changes that you can live with. You will still have Saturn’s stern hand on your shoulder until September 2007 and the mid life crisis will peak in the next few years. So you will learn to live with these feelings or you will do something about them. Change is good but in moderation. You do need to make small changes so you can feel better about you and your life, I think you need more time to yourself and more personal space You need to feel appreciated again. Make more time and energy for the things you enjoy and every so often make a point to put yourself first! Get used to doing things for you again! After this July you will feel as if you have more support and your relationship improves. You have been reviewing this relationship for many months but you will look at it in a different perspective after July. I am asking you to hang in there because things will improve but only if you start to make small changes that can lead to bigger ones down the road. That trapped feeling you are experiencing is because you are not living your truth ...you need to find out who it is you are again; not just someone’s life or mother or daughter or worker bee, but who you are again. Take the time to do this, please! Astrologically, things ease up a bit after July and throughout November. But June and early July are testy due to a Mars transits watch that famous Taurus temper!
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