Hi Kimmie, My name is Amy and I talked to you last night on star 105.  I was the one that was searching her husbands car for proof of his infidelity.  When, I came home and asked him, he became very upset and jumped all over me.  He said he has never and would never do that to me.  Also, that I was destroying the marriage do to my lack of trust.  I've been trying to put this out of my mind, but I'm devastated.  I feel like I accused him of something and was wrong.  I don't know what to do, I feel so guilty, but I can't shake the fact that, this has bothered me for days.  Is it possible I could be wrong?  I guess I need the proof for myself.  He keeps saying it's my problem that I can't trust him.  I don't have a lot of money but would like to talk to you one on one.  DO I need to set up an appointment, I have to do it over the phone, because I live
quite a distance and don't have a sitter to get there.  My husband will be gone Saturday.  Also, how much do you charge for a party?  Thank You Kimmie, Amy


Amy,  I am so sorry.  I was  in your position in 1999.  Yes. it is hard.  They make you feel guilty to balance their own guilt. You need to learn to not ACCEPT that energy from him.  If you accept it then it becomes part of who you are.  Only you can accept the guilt.  What in him mirrors yourself?  See it and set him free.  I wanted so badly to give you a big hug.  YOU DESERVE LOVE.  YOU DESERVE to NOT live in constant worry.......... I feel you will let go of him soon and when you do you are going to be like a butterfly coming out of it's cacoon.  Yes, we do parties.  Nancy schedules them.  She has all the info if you call her.   Please try and tune in tonight.  We are going to discuss loving yourself.  With much love and prayers. Kimmie

 

 

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Kimmie, My problem is I'm moving out of town in 2007. When I meet a guy I feel the need to tell him I'm moving. I think I'm afraid we'll fall in love and I''ll have to choose between him or moving to be with my family. My question to you is will I meet someone and when? If you feel a name that would really help also. I'm afraid to start a new relationship but I do get lonely.  I don't know what to do.   
Thanks so much,   Theresa   6/12/58

Hi there.  I feel the name Tim and have this feeling that moving is a good thing for you!  Tell him! Be in the truth. That is the most important thing!   Family feels right so you can meet someone new!  We are so happy you love Star After Dark!  We are always here for you if you need us!  Tune in Monday through Thursdays 7 to 10 pm, 105.5 and call us 419 240 1055! Peace!    -Kimmie

 

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